Your Story, Your Vibration, and Your Results!! Let’s Take Off the Blinders!!!

Your Story, Your Vibration, and Your Results!! Let’s Take Off the Blinders!!!

Are you aware of your blindspots when it comes to your story, your vibration and the results you’re getting in your life?

Are you connecting the dots when things aren’t so rosy?

Most of us don’t! (Say what?!)

In this week’s VLOG we’ll take a look at our blind spots and dive into how our response to them can really affect what happens in our lives.

Most of us understand the basic laws such as Law of Attraction and Law of Vibration and believe that we are the creators of our reality.

Perhaps we listen to podcasts, watch YouTube channels regularly, and apply the principles to the best of our abilities.

When something good happens (the rosy stuff), we proudly say, “Oooh! I did that, I made that happen!.”

Easy-peasy-lemon-squeezy, right?

BUT (and it’s a BIG one!)…

When it comes to things in our life that aren’t so rosy…

  • Someone cuts us off in traffic.
  • Or, the barista gets our order wrong (for the third time).
  • Or, our Zoom calls keep dropping.

Are we engaging??? Far too often, in the moment of choice, we are choosing to engage in this lower vibration activity.

Suddenly everything we’ve learned about the Law of Attraction, Law of Vibration, and all that manifesting stuff goes straight out the window!

Why? Because we temporarily go ‘unconscious’; we’ve put the blinders on.

We’ve all been there, done that. Hanging out in a lower vibration.

And we KNOW this stuff, right?!?! We know that when we engage in this lower vibration it comes right back to us!

So today is all about how you consciously choose to respond – stay conscious, connect those dots, keep your vibration high so you can continue to receive high vibration results in your life!

Yes, these situations are annoying and frustrating.

Building your awareness around your blindspots is just one of many topics we will dive into together in the Conscious Wealth Creators workshop October 23rd.

How to Raise your Vibration and watch your whole world change!

How to Raise your Vibration and watch your whole world change!

I see it time and time again.

Sooo many women who have forgotten their natural truth.

Forgotten their power.

We’ve fallen prey to being programmed and being conditioned by past stories, or people in our lives, and are living mostly within the limitations of our 5 senses.

If we are living with our limited senses, we are living limited lives.

Most people violate the universal laws, such as the Law of Attraction and the Law of Vibration unknowingly. Or get them mixed up. But, they are very different.

But, when you learn to use the laws like cheat sheets to life, it makes life WAAAAAY easier!

Today’s VLOG is about how to shift our focus away from the Law of Attraction and towards the Law of Vibration.

Are you ready to feel magical & watch your whole world change?

And, one thing is undeniable…all things vibrate. You vibrate, I vibrate and our emotions vibrate. (Other things vibrate, we won’t go there!) From your pen to your emotions….everything is vibrating on different frequencies, which are high or low.

Our emotions -joy, love, appreciation – are on a higher vibrational frequency. Whereas, anger, hate, guilt – are vibrationally low.

So, if we are practicing the vibration/feeling of anger, then the secondary Law of Attraction will, in turn, bring us anger.

Just as if we are practicing the vibration/feeling of joy, then the secondary Law of Attraction will bring us joy.

Our vibration is actually what dictates what we attract. It is the Law of Vibration that we need to focus on!

The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like, so it will bring your practicing vibration to you.

Can you see why The Law of Vibration is the primary law and dictates what you attract?

So, if you want to be a Conscious Wealth Creator, then you will need to tune in and CHOOSE to be a vibrational match to what you want. If that is too much of a stretch, start with reaching for the next best feeling.

THE LAW OF ATTRACTION ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS WORKS!

THE LAW OF ATTRACTION ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS WORKS!

​Do you love the idea of the Law of Attraction, but haven’t been able to get it to work for you? Or maybe it’s been hit and miss? The real explanation is probably not what you think.

Here’s the truth: The Law of Attraction has been oversimplified and bastardized. If you are familiar with the movie The Secret, it was great from the perspective that it helped humanity become more awake to our abilities to consciously create. On the flip side, the consensus was that the law was so oversimplified and left people feeling misled and bewildered.

So let’s set things straight…

If you’ve been following me lately, you’ll have noticed that I’ve spent a lot of time lately diving into the ways we give away our energy and personal power. It’s the first thing I share with my High Powered Living group, and that’s for a very good reason.

When you want to create a better life (more love, better finances, more fulfilling career etc), you MUST first, “clean up how you show up”.

Why? Because chances are you have limiting beliefs and thought patterns that are running the show. And they hold you back from being the powerful creator that you are!

The tricky part is that you usually aren’t even aware you are doing this… until you are!

I recall years ago when I was stuck at the same income level. I knew I needed to do things differently if I wanted different results. I thought I was doing everything right to attract what I wanted, but then realized I had a blind spot. So I started to become more and more aware of my thoughts and beliefs. I soon discovered that I actually had resistance to growing! Yikes. I believed “If I grow my income, I will have even more responsibilities and work and I will burn out.” It didn’t matter what intentions I set, this belief always won!

In other words, your blocks will always trump your desires! Eeeek, not good!

Once I worked on letting go of my limiting belief and increased the focus on my desire, I ended up quadrupling my income! (Side note: In the process, I created a new belief, “More income means more freedom, more experiences, ability to hire help, serve more people and give back.”)

So to make this Law work for you, you MUST first make the unconscious, conscious so that you can stop arguing for your limitations and become the powerful creator you are.

At a superficial level, can you see why so many people might say the Law of Attraction doesn’t work? Truth is, it is ALWAYS WORKING!! It’s LAW! No different than Newton’s Law of Gravity.

It works but we need to work it! And we must become aware of the energy that we are putting out into the world. Most of us do not live with this kind of awareness.

So let’s recap. To become the powerful conscious creator that you are, you must:

1) Clean up how you show up: Become aware of and overcome your blocks by reclaiming your energy and personal power. (Remember the Human Do-er, The External Validator, The Unexpressed, and the other ways we give away our energy?)

2) Make the unconscious conscious: Look at your results! These are a reflection; manifestations of your thoughts and beliefs. They will tell you how to adjust.

3) Live every day with greater awareness: Make this your new way of BE-ing. The more conscious you are = the greater ability to be a conscious creator.

I will leave you with one of my favourite quotes by Les Brown.

Remember, the Law of Attraction is always working and you are always attracting! What is it that you are currently attracting? And what is it you REALLY want to attract?

VISION BOARDS DON’T WORK, HERE’S WHY

VISION BOARDS DON’T WORK, HERE’S WHY

Do you create vision boards? You’re not alone. Many people use this tool as a way to manifest what they want in their lives. It seems like such a great idea, right? A tool to help visualize the things we want in life.

Maybe we took a workshop, diligently built out our ideal life with photos cut out of magazines or printed off the internet. Then we hung it on our walls and looked at it every day. We stare at it and think about that car we want to drive or that house we want to live in.

Then we start to get disappointed (or frustrated) that the vision board isn’t helping us to get those things we want. It’s not working. Grrrr!!

We might ask a teacher or coach about this, and they might give us advice like, “You just need to try harder” or “You’re not focusing enough”. Ugh, really?

So, just what is the problem? Here are the two biggies that most people miss.

1. Believability of Our Vision:  When we create beautiful vision boards of the life we want, we typically add a lot of photos of a lifestyle that is probably really far off from what we currently live. It might be a big house, a slim body, an expensive car, vacations to exotic places. There’s nothing wrong with wanting these things (in fact, wanting or desiring when from your essence is part of the human condition AND how we grow), but it’s often such a big leap that our minds don’t feel it’s believable. And if it’s not believable, we have created an unconscious block from bringing it to fruition.

Am I saying never go for the big hairy audacious goals? Absolutely not! In fact, I am a fan of them. Stretch yourself, but be sure they feel believable to you!

2. Thoughts Behind the Vision: If you understand the basics of manifestation, you know that thoughts become things. So what thoughts are we actually saying (aloud or in our head)? Probably, “I really want this car, that I DON’T HAVE” or “I want to live in this house, that I DON’T HAVE”. So although it might seem like we’re asking for what we want, what we’re actually doing is emphasizing what we perceive we LACK. And this lack will override our desire.

We’re telling the universe (God, The Creator, Universal Intelligence, Source) that we don’t have something, so the universe brings us more of that energy – to NOT have the car, house, money, etc.

So instead of our vision boards bringing us closer to our dreams, they’re repelling the very things that we want. Eeek, not fun!

Here’s how to address these two problems we so commonly overlook.

Before creating a vision board (or any intention in any form), spend time getting quiet, connect to that part of yourself that is all knowing – the part of you that knows that you are limitless, full of possibilities, and capable of bringing your deepest desires to fruition. From this place:

1. Ask yourself, “What do I desire most?” Use your imagination, don’t limit yourself, stretch yourself while still feeling it’s believable. Paint this picture as vividly as you can in your mind.2. Shift your focus from the actual tangible desire (house, new job, money etc.) to the FEELING that this desire will bring you. (The feeling puts you into the same vibration as your desire, not the vibration of lack). Connect to this FEELING as often and as long as you can.

Vision boards have the potential to be great manifestation tools, but for most people, we need to re-frame how we use them. Once we do… the world is our oyster!

Stay tuned next week for part 2, where I’ll share a tip about the Law of Attraction you probably didn’t realize that can help you put it to work for you.